Bittersweet {my family}
July 13, 2010Back in October, I posted a peek of some of my oldest’s Senior pictures. I cannot believe how quickly his senior year went by. Yes, they go through messy stages, shy stages, talking back stages, testing the boundaries stages, stages that will drive you completely batty….but I’m warning you….embrace each stage for our children pass into new stages in just a few short blinks.
The past month or so has been a bit of a roller coaster in our household. My oldest, Alex, recently graduated from high school and is now at the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD working hard at what they call “Plebe Summer.” We took Alex to the USNA to report on July 1. No cell phones, no internet, no computer access, no texting his first six weeks. We are currently relying on good ‘ol fashioned snail mail. In a world where we rely so heavily on technology and using it as means of communication….when it is abruptly taken away from you…..well, let’s just say it is difficult to deal with. While I mail letters to Alex virtually every other day, he has only 45 minutes of free time each day which is usually spent polishing shoes, keeping his room in immaculate shape, cleaning his uniforms, memorizing his rates, etc. His letters are short, but they are reassuring. “Hearing” him write so positively about the chaos his life has temporarily become is reassuring and it makes my heavy heart just a little bit lighter every time I open the mailbox to one of his letters. The good news is that we return to Annapolis mid-August to spend 3 days with him before he begins the Academic Year. I am literally checking the days off the calendar. I just can’t wait to squeeze him!
I took tons of photos while we were in Naptown, but this one tugs at my heart and makes me tear up every time I look at it. Alex, in his newly issued Plebe uniform, head freshly shaved, USNA issued glasses (awful, aren’t they?), being adored by his baby brother minutes after he took his Oath and minutes before we said goodbye to him and he marched into Bancroft Hall.
So that is the short of the latest and greatest in our house and why the poor blog has been so neglected. The couple weeks before he left were consumed with placement tests, celebrations and getting him ready to go. The almost two weeks he has been away I have been consumed with worry, with writing letters, with sending care packages, with catching up on everything I put on hold to be with my family. I have so many sessions coming up to make up for the last three weeks I had taken off. Check back soon!
























Karin Prunty: I can sooo relate. My son recently deployed to Korea, but at the beginning of 2010, he was in bootcamp. It was so hard having only snail mail to communicate but I do have all those letters to treasure now. I know you are so proud of your son--even as your heart hurts. Big hugs!!
Lesa: This photo is priceless what a great shot!!! This is one to cherish!